One of the most difficult parts of dating is the fact that we have to rely so heavily on the other person. Not necessarily to do things for us, I just mean in the way of feelings. The feelings must be reciprocated or a relationship can't even begin! And of course, knowing me, being out of control is something I tend to dislike. But so it is. I can't control anyone else and sometimes things just go in a different direction. Time to move on and find a reciprocator.
C'est La Vie.
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Why does it seem like we fall so often for the strangers to reciprocity? I guess they say that it only takes one... But yes, finding someone to spend your existence with is more difficult than most things in mortality - it's completely dependent upon someone else's agency/feelings etc. It simply kinda sucks. Just sayin! :)
I think what frustrates me the most is that I can't control love! Anything else in my life I can accomplish if I set my mind to it but with all the thought, effort and time I put into dating gets me no results! Arggggh. And then I try and focus on all the "other" things in my life and I stay busy and blah blah blah. What is the point of staying busy if its not what I really want? I'm still trying to figure this question out, sorry to be depressing.
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